First reading and the Tower showed up. Help?

Completely new here. Did my first 3 card spread about a situationship. Got The Fool, The Lovers, and The Tower. The Tower scared the shit out of me ngl. Does this mean it's gonna blow up? 😭

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I had the exact same Tower panic last month

Tower isn't a doom card, it's a 'this structure wasn't built to last' card. sometimes that's a relief, not a threat

first time I pulled Tower I put the deck away for two weeks 😭 it gets less scary, promise

Fool + Lovers + Tower reads like: new start, real connection, then whatever was hiding gets exposed. not automatically a breakup

ask yourself what in the situationship already feels shaky. Tower usually points at what you already know

the Tower only knocks down what wasn't solid. that line is what finally got through to me

ngl Tower is one of my favorite cards now. every Tower moment I've had was necessary

don't let one card hijack the whole spread though. what did the Fool and the Lovers say?